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It's been six long days and nights... Where is this breakup going?

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Question - (10 March 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2006)
A female , *isslady writes:

My boyfriend took off it's been 6 days now that I havent seen him, but I did talk to him last night. He told me to remember that he loves me, but he's confused right now, one minute he loves me the next he doesn't, he's tired of having to disipline my kids all the time and on valentines day I played pass with my kids' dad, he said it was suppose to be our day and I didn't make it our day. He said he would eventually come back,"It's not like I just up and abbandond you is it?" But when asked he said he didn't miss me. I want him to come back he means everything to me we even at one time discussed getting married, which has never come up with him before in past relationships, I did some reserch on that. I'm really hurting right now, that now matter what I'm doing I just out of now where start crying, I even have to cry myself to sleep it's the only way I can get to sleep. Can any one please help or give me some advice on how to get him back to me?????????

I'm verry desperate right now Please help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2006):

Thanx for the advice It worked He's going to contact me in a couple of days to talk about what needs to change. He said he loves and misses me. It was hell getting to this point but in the end it was all worth it. And no matter what I'm going to be by his side catering to his every need even if it means waking up at 3a.m. to feed him. THANKS!!!

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A female reader, misslady +, writes (15 March 2006):

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I tried the space thing but he found someone else. Now I'm stuck heartbroken and confused. I really love him, and not like High-School love neither reall 100% true love. Now what do I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2006):

you should give him time obviously theres a reason for your break, you should allow him to get what ever he needs from this break. when he comes back to you you'll know he's serious about being in a relationship with you. all you can do is to be patient try not to cry i know its hard but try. also try and show him what he's missing, try show him that you strong with out him.

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