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It was my first time trying to have sex, but we couldn't get anything inside!

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Question - (27 March 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2005)
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I tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but it wouldn't go in. My vagina seems to stop about 3 centimetres in and then nothing else can go up. Even when he tried fingering me he couldn't get his fingers in there. What is wrong?

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A reader, hlyberry3 +, writes (27 March 2005):

You need to go to a gyno and have yourself checked out. We are all unique people. Maybe you have a very small canal from your opening to your cervix. Very possible. But this question is one for your gyno!!

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A reader, sammi +, writes (27 March 2005):

Maybe you were just too tense. When you come to have sex you must always remember to have lots of foreplay just to make you lubricated for when it comes down to the serious stuff. But don't worry. Many women have this problem when it is their first time. Not only that, if you are still a virgin, it is harder to relax because you feel that you are under pressure.

Next time you try just have lots of kisses and touching, rubbing and most of all, he reassures you that he isn't there just for the sex and that you are perfect!

Good luck sweetie. I hope it works out. After all, practice makes perfect!!

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