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writes:I've only had sex a couple of times and although I feel like I want to have sex I never really enjoy it when I have it. Is this normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lost in the clouds  +, writes (15 February 2011):
I have been in you exact same place i didn't like sex and thought i was abnormal. i even accepted i wouldnt like sex so i learned to jus b ok with that but then i got wit a guy who i fell in love with and i love sex with him. sorry if tht dusnt help but it really does matter the person your having sex with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Hi there,To not enjoy sex is normal but shouldn't be. I've had 3 long term boyfriends, 2 semi-serious sexual partners and lots of one night stands. I myself have had many unenjoyable nights in the sack. I find actually if they are one night stands just let them get it out of their system, you can sort yourself out when they are asleep ;)... If its a serious sexual relationship you should be able to talk to your partner about sex. What about sex with your partner don't you like and what do you? How about getting them to experiment... You'll find out in the end what you like and what you don't and be able to find a happy medium. However if they aren't willing to change for you and they don't want to help you enjoy sex as much as they do then they aren't worth it, sex and mainly enjoyable sex is important!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Well I'm no expert but it sounds to me like your having sex with total strangers and you have physical attraction but not emotional aka feelings. I've been maried for 5 years now and I've only been with my wife so I don't really know alot but if I were to have sexy with another woman I would of course have sexual gratification but there would still be that emptiness that only a significant other can fill. Hope this helps.
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