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writes:I've been talking to this guy since July and he lives kinda far from me so we haven't met, but this dude will confess his feelings for me every couple of months, include me in his life plans and then disappear. I've tried to not get my hopes up cause I know we both live very different lives, but why do people do this? And how do you guys deal with this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2015): I wouldnt bother, I've had the same experiences. Either he has a girlfriend, wife, talking to several other girls or just isn't interested but doesn't want to be rude.
Find someone who puts the effort and wants to see you, and doesn't go missing :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2015): Sounds suspicious to me. Is this a man that you text back & forth with, but have never met or talked with on the phone?
If yes, then the feelings he is confessing are not real. He is just leading you on & having a little ego stroke at your expense. He disappears like that because he is probably texting several others with the same notes, since he does this for fun and to pass time.
I don't know why people do this, but I find it very distasteful. Unfortunately, it happens a lot.
If you want to continue to text him that is your decision, but do not make any assumptions about you being in a relationship with him. You are not at all, and you should continue to try and meet other people if you are interested in having a boyfriend. He does not have a claim on you by any stretch.
Hope this helps a bit.
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