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female
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30-35,
*igo
writes:it's been about a month that I feel my best friend changing...I don't know really but these last days she's telling me that she's thinking about a relationship with my ex boyfriend and she knows very well that I really liked him so much...and more than that she was in a relationship with his best friend really I'm shocked about her because i've never thought that she could do something like that we were really good friends. so my question is should I talk to her about me feelings or I just shut my mouth because I'm not upset because she's going on a relationship with my ex I'm upset because of her changing so...please would you tell me what to do ?? would you tell me if she's really a friend or should I leave her!!!???
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reader, higo +, writes (27 June 2008):
higo is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for helping me today I was with her and we talked as always and you know I wasn't mad at all I still love her and we talked about her boyfriend but I wasn't at all mad au contraire I wished her a good luck with him and I swear it's very okey with me...and the good that we get together and I've never thought that I'll hate her for anything...thank you for helping...
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 You are way over reacting hon. Lol She's not changing at all she's exploring her range. Here's some advice. Never let a guy stand between you and your friends relationship. Because there are guys that will come and guys that will go. But only one that will stay. So that guy will be oblivious to your friends flirting or such if he's right for you. But i think your over reacting and she's exploring her range. Try and stay supportive.
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 She's not changing. She's being honest with you as her best friend. She wants you to know what she's thinking and feeling. Now if she did it behind your back, you would have something to complain about!
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