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writes:hia all, i havnt been on here in ages and also accidently posted this as a forum message, not a question because i had forgotten how to use the site lol.recently i have met a girl via a site you wouldnt think you would meet on and we have been chattin for almost ages now. a strong empotinoal attraction has developed and we both honestly feel for each other.only problem is she is in america and i in australia. i cant ask her to move here nor not sure if i can there.as weird as this all is, we just wanna be together.i wanna at least go see her or her to come here and see me, maybe see if our attraction is real.is this a stupid idea or can love really be worth it? Reply to this Question |
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reader, coles85  +, writes (8 November 2009):
I dont know mate, ive heard a lot of bad things about these, if you've met this person in person then i suppose its fine, however ive heard horror stories about this senario! be skeptical and make sure you know what your doing! it cud turn out you have many conflicts of interest when trying to life around each other! good luck
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (7 November 2009):
 If I've understood you correctly, you're asking if it's still worh visiting one another knowing a relationship would be temporary. Yes?
My answer is yes.
Relationships can be short term, yet still meaningful. People will come and go from our lives and sometimes the ones who have the most impact are only in it for a short time.
You both like each other enough, so if you have the means to visit, do it.
However, given that this is long distance, I think you should be realistic in setting parametres. Exclusivity is a lot to ask of someone who only has minimal access to us. It's not as if you were already together and one of you was temporarily stationed overseas.
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