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female
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anonymous
writes: HI, I'm 23, a married lady and when me and my husband have sex I don't seem to get sexually aroused. Sometimes I do but during sex I stop and then it hurts from lack of lubrication. I never come and sometimes it can be so frustrating. Is there something wrong with me? Reply to this Question |
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male
reader, martini  +, writes (27 June 2006):
 Communicate and experimentation are the two key things to remember.
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female
reader, ariel  +, writes (27 June 2006):
 Hello,
There is nothing wrong with you,your body and your mind need to link,it could be don juan in the bed ,but if you are thinking of the laundery it won't work.To help yourself ,concentrate on foreplay,oral sex,kissing,stroking each other and clitoral stimulation as well as fantasies.keep adding to the images in your mind while focusing on what you're doing to him and what he is doing to you.
Some women need clitoral stimulation throughout sex,doggy style works best,you can stimulate your clit while he penetrates you.
Remember if you fake orgasms,he thinks he is doing everything right.If you are stimulated ,you should be well lubed,if you are not keep some next to the bed.
Don't over obsess,just focus and take it slow.
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