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writes: hi i have a problem my girlfreind who i started going out with in 1998 now sinvce the it was stable relationship till 3 years later when she dumped me and saids i never want to see u again wel 8 years later 2006 she came back into my life march this year and 6 weeks she went off and nhow she married i really want her back is there no way i can get her back Reply to this Question
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (3 July 2006):
 Think about the facts in your letter:
* You dated for three years
* She left in 2001
* You didn't see her for 5 years afterwards
* You saw her for six weeks
* She's now married
I don't see a pattern of a girlfriend who wants you, can you? Honestly?
It looks a lot to me like she disappeared for five long years after saying that she didn't want to see you again, then reappeared briefly, then made a very strong statement that it was over by marrying someone else.
All things considered, I'd say there's NO CHANCE whatsoever of getting her back.
Sorry about that, hon.
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