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Is there hope for me? I only recently decided that I was in love with him and now he says he's marrying someone else...

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Question - (17 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 March 2008)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My partner and I are more or less best friends. In the past he would speak to me about marriage but I wasn’t remotely interested until lately and I found that I might be in love with him. Unfortunately, now he tells me he is getting married to someone else but seems to always want to be with me. Do I dump him or is there hope. Cant tell him because I don’t want to seem desperate. Am a single mother of two and he has never been married. Please advice me.

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A male reader, guillaume  United Kingdom + , writes (17 March 2008):

guillaume  agony auntHi,

I sympathise with what is happening to you. I think it is too late for you. He was probably very upset when you wasn't interested in the past and now he has moved on. Let him be. If he still has feelings for you then he wont go through with his marriage. best wishes, G.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2008):

I think it would be very, very selfish and desperate if you now decided that you want him. Sorry, but the impression I get is that you only wanted him now that he has moved on. Now your pulling at his heartstrings to confuse him.

That is not the type of women which I understand. Let him go and stay away from him. Concentrate on your children instead of this man.

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