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writes: So 3 week ago i met this really pretty girl at a pool hall. She was alone and i was with 2 buddys. Well this girl happens to live on my street too (wow). So anyhow she invites me back to her place after we chatted, which was surprising. So i ended up goin to her place after dropping my 2 buddys off, and we chatted and watched tv for few hours, then out of nowhere she sits on me and says “when were you planning to kiss me?” I was shocked considering she was a smart girl who seemed goody type. So we made out the whole night. 2Nd night i hung with her again and we made out all night too and little bit of touchy feely, day we hang again. But before the 3Rd i came over she texts me (no one is home) im thinking, lol oh boy. So yes i went over there and then made the moves to kissing and touching, once we got naked she goes “what are you waiting for with a smile on her face.” So we done the deed and i spent the night with her. Then she wanted me to come to different thing with her. She does put her head on my shoulders. She did say few days later "omg i cant belive we had sex so soon, we werent supposed to do that yet" i talked to her about us giving it a shot at dating. She says she wants to hang out more first. We had sex again. We still see each other almost every day and act as if were bf/gf we always cuddle and shes always got her arms around me . I actually like this girl and i would consider having her around as a g/f. Shes smart, shes sexy, and we converse pretty good, and i like the way she is. She does from here and there ask me questions such as "how do you treat your girlfriends" and etcBut once again i talked to her about us having a shot together. She said she is thinking. What does this mean? So what im asking is, do you think she likes me and wants to give it more time? Or whats goin on, you think she still wants to hang more and then become official bf/gf or this is some play around buddy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): It sounds like she maybe playing games a little. But in her defense I think she might be testing to see whether you're truly interested in persuing a relationship. Make sure you absolutely want to be in a relationship with her and if you are then blantantly state that. Don't beat around the bush. Be prepared for her to say no, I just wanna keep things the way they are. If you think you want something more than a hook up it's probably best to drop it, no sense in getting hurt in the end.
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