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writes:Hey I am 16 I am gonna be 17 in October and last week my girlfriend dumped me cause she thinks she is being really bossy and rude to me but she's not. Then 2 days later I call her then we talked she says you need to let me go then says let me think about things let me cool off. So I did, then my friend and her friend called her and she told him that if she goes back into a relationship it would be with me.Then 3 days later I called to make sure of everything then she says "When I heard those girls threatened you bad then I said you only went out with me cause you felt bad she says no. Then she says I love you as a friend. I am very confused and lost does that mean she is only trying to make her self feel better. Should just give her a break then she'll call me. We were going out for 8 months shes is 19 but she showed so much love into this relationship. I think her family has to do with something cause sometimes I could of heard them in the background talking. Is she just confused. She kept telling me she dosnt feel ready for a relationship but also the day she dumped me she said If I go back into a relationship it would be with me promese. then the love as a friend thing came up but tells everyone else something different. I truly love her and I know she loves me. Maybe I just need to give her a break? please help
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reader, 1337Gamer +, writes (15 September 2007):
1337Gamer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe hole break up thing didnt seem like it she dosnt like anyone else she dosnt lie. My friends told me the same what she told them. let me change the thing little I misseda few. Her family kept arguing with her about me being imature and stuff and the age thing she broke up with me 1 time then the mom came on the phone then said I never said then then my ex said im sorry didnt mean that then2 days later it happend again cause we a 1 little argue and then yeah. I am just wondering if it is a space thing cause where she lives she dosnt have friends and dosnt know anyother guys.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (15 September 2007):
 She's trying to dump you without hurting your feeling. She's not going to tell you the truth like she's interested in another man. Why? Because she's a woman and women are emotional, and by hurting your feelings it would hurt her feeling. She would probably even cry if she told you the truth. As a man, you can only except what she is saying, and she is saying "go away". A strong man would "go away", a very strong man would "go away and never go back." Your choices are limited since you are only in control of what you do.
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reader, 1337Gamer +, writes (15 September 2007):
1337Gamer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI also forgot to say that... can really a family mess up a relationship see she may be 19 but where she lives she cant just leave her family wont let her get a job and stuff and she cant walk cause she has ephlepsy and its like5 miles to the bus station but yeah could it be the family that is messing up this relationship?
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reader, 1337Gamer +, writes (15 September 2007):
1337Gamer is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI also forgot to say that... can really a family mess up a relationship see she may be 19 but where she lives she cant just leave her family wont let her get a job and stuff and she cant walk cause she has ephlepsy and its like5 miles to the bus station but yeah could it be the family that is messing up this relationship?
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