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writes:I met a new attractive guy. My one friend who currently has a boyfriend said she was making it her mission to find me a guy. After a night of hanging out with the new cute guy, she asks me if I like him, and if I would ever date him. I tell her yes. The next day she tells me that she thinks that he likes her. Why did she tell me this? Even if she did feel that, why would she tell me? She has a boyfriend. Does this mean that he doesnt like me? It never crossed my mind that he would like her until she said that.
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reader, LizzieLowe  +, writes (27 January 2008):
Who was hanging out with the guy - you or her...or both??
Friends are not always 'friends'....it's difficult to find a true friend who won't let you down given the chance.
I remember being at College once and really fancying a guy for months but I was shy and never spoke to him. My 'best' friend used to say ''oh, he's looking at you'' all the time and she seemed to stare at him alot but never said she fancied hi,. One day she said ''sod it...I'm going to tell him you like him''. I watched as she walked over to him, they chatted for about ten minutes then she came back and said ''Mmm...sorry...he said you're not his type''. After all that time I was completely gutted. There was someone else that had been chasing me at College and I'd never had a boyfriend before so decided that I would give him a chance and try and get to know him. It turned out that he lived in the same street as this guy that I really fancied and they would go out together on occasion. One night I ended up talking to the guy I fancied...guess what he said ''younever waited for me''....I asked him what he meant....he said that he had told my friend that he's always liked me and that he had to go off ''site'' to do practical and would be away from college for two weeks (which did happen) and that when he came back he would make a point of talking to me. He said that when he came back...his mate had told him that he was seeing me so he realised that I wasn't interested anymore.
So.....just because your 'friend' has a boyfriend...it doesn't make her a good two shoes!!! She could be up to all sorts. You must know whether the guy likes YOU or not - there will be many signs....find out....and if the attraction is mutual...go for it but tell your friend very little....some women can be very very dangerous. Look out for yourself!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): Hi Hunny,
She is being a little bitchy, She has a guy she likes yours she is also a little jealous of you be aware of this love TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, Lila +, writes (27 January 2008):
 She's toxic
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reader, HappySmiles +, writes (27 January 2008):
 Just live your life the fullest! Dont let her spoil your fun!
like laura said, Enjoy
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 January 2008):
 Just ignore her careless talk. It is only her perceptions.She is unavailable and you stand a better chance. Just go ahead and date him and enjoy. Don't let your friend's remarks spoil your day.She wants to make herself feel important.
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