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writes: im in a relationship with a man i love deeply , but my problem is that the thought of having sex with him anymore turns me right off , we been together for sevral years , iv not had sex with him for about 8 months and he doesnt seem to bothered. Reply to this Question
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reader, cfliberal +, writes (15 May 2006):
How do you feel about sex in general? Were you very interested in it in the past? What about your boyfriend? It's possible the two of you just have low sex drives, but if you're interested in sex, but not with him, then it's a problem.I'd advise getting a checkup and then talking with your boyfriend about the situation. He should ideally get one too just to be sure everything is ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2006): You're "posh friends" not lovers.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (14 May 2006):
 My dear this is not normal at all. How can your boyfriend "turn you right off?" Why does it turn you off, what has happened in your relationship. You have not been intimate for 8 months, thats clearly not a healthy sign. You need to ask yourself why your relationship has got to this stage, why do yo both seem totally not bothered about not being intimate. Sex is not the only thing in a relationship of course, but it is important because it shows how close, and intimate you are as a couple and being intimate is the closest you can get to each other and if he turns you off, why are you with him? Talk to him my dear, please do sort this out. xXx
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