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writes:Okay well this is really stupid because I think this teacher has never taught me and I've never had him before. But every student knows him as he is the pastoral manager in our school (who sorts out the unruly/behavior problems in school) Students already labels him as the most scariest teacher EVER in school. The head teacher is way too nice to be compared to him.I just don't get it because Its not my fault. I didn't choose him. I have never talked to him. I think I just kind of noticed the other week he started wearing these suits WHICH I TEND TO GO CRAZY FOR and he looks so masculine in one, Its like when footballers wears suit . He use to be a P.E teacher but not anymore. Lately he's usually on duty outside the canteen and I keep spotting him looking at me. Like 2 second looks then he turns away then does it again! I noticed this every time as I always sit with my friends near him. After that I couldn't stop thinking about him. I started looking at him, looking for him.I told one of my closet friend and she knew a little bit about him. She said he's very selective about people. Apparently he ignores the one he doesn't know or like and is completely a different person of someone he knows. When I always stare at him down the corridor or walk past him, I turn back and just have another glance before I go to my next class then I caught him staring at me. Then he started following me?! When I'm in class I sit near the open door and he always walks up and down the corridor looking at me.I really don't know what to do. Its half term right now and GOD how I miss him :( It gets worse as I have 3 exams on June and I can't stop thinking about him. Is this man seducing me?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for taking time to answer, I appreciate it.
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reader, Tasmanian devil +, writes (29 May 2010):
 i think its more your looking at him. if you sit near the door hes probably looking through it so you think hes looking at you. and him wearing a suit that makes you think hes fit isn't him seducing you, you just have a crush thats all
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): He probably finds your staring oodd, plus his job is to observe pupils ,checking their behaviour so NO he's not seducing you. Gosh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): No, he's not seducing you, unless there's something that you're not telling us.
Have you ever been sat on a train and it looks like there is a person staring at you, so you keep looking at them to see if they are looking at you, and then you catch them looking and then you look away and look back and they are doing it again?
Yes, we've ALL done it. But is it not feasible that the person on the train was staring into space and thinking about something and then realised they were accidentally staring at you, and then when you kept looking at them they kept looking back because they wondered if you were looking at them and so on?
It IS feasible.
Just a game of 'who looked first'
He may be keeping an eye on you now because he catches you looking at him and thinks it's suspicious.
What you have to do is picture him as if he is NOT a teacher, never has been. He's a train driver (I randomly picked this it's not relevant) and you're at the train station and see him on the train and the same 'staring' thing happens. Would you feel the same way?
Teachers, for some reason, have a way of being attractive regardless of what they're like as a person. You have to try and detach yourself from his profession.
See if that works.
And also, another option is that he IS looking at you maybe in amazement because he can't believe that a young woman is looking at him (even teachers have an ego to feed)
But be sure that he is NOT seducing you, teachers don't go through tonnes of training and hard work to seduce pupils, they just don't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): Whatever he is doing, he is acting inappropriately. You cannot have a relationship with this man because he is your teacher. Forget him and concentrate on your exams.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010): Sorry it just sounds from that that he maybe finds you interesting, probz not in a sexual way from the sound of that, could you tell me his age and how long this has being going on for?
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