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writes:I'm wondering if I'm about to be dumped. i've been in a long -distance relationship for one and a half years now. I have just this week begun wondering of he's tired of the relationship. At the weekend, he said to me 'I'm your friend, you can tell me' (about what film i wanted to see). This week so far we've only had one long conversation.I don't know what to do. I really love him, I want to be with him. But I don't want to make things difficult for him if he wants to end it. I feel like I'm waiting for the guillotine. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): It depends how long distance is long distance? My boyfriend is in Australia and I'm hoping to get out there as soon as I can. We only have one long conversation per week too, text about 5 times a day. Its hard but the love is either there or it isn't. Do you have skype access? this might help. I think with long distance relationships they do have to have an end goal ultimately - something to aim for. If not they just drift and without a secure direction it is easy and only natural to want to create a new direction for yourself where you are physically / geographically - something that you can achieve, touch, see etc. I think it is time you and he had a heart to heart and a really honest chat - hopefully he will respond honestly - and you need to work out between you whether you have a future.
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