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writes: Hello, I am a 21 yr old female and have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. I have had 1 sexual partner before him but I was his first. I never saw this as a problem.Last night after we had had sex he asked me do I wish that I had been more experienced and been with more people before him. I said no becuase I love him and I'm not intersted in sex with anyone else. He replied that he wished he had been with other girls before me but that he is ok and happy with me at moment and that he is still in our relationship for the long haul.Now I am worried how long is 'long' and that if he gets the opportunity to have sex with someone he will. What should I do?? I am upset that he was wishing he had sex with other people whilst he was having sex with me. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (10 October 2005):
 I don't think you really have a problem here at all. As long as the sex is fun and the relationship is strong you are doing great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2005): Honestly, I see a three year relationship long. At your age it useully means "this is the one" or "I think this is the one". I got the impression that he just feels inexperienced knowing you've been with one other. if this guy enjoys the relationship and says he's in it for the long run, I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. Remember all of the good and loving days and why you two are together when you start to worry and get upset. Remember three years! Why worry now? Maybe you can try something to spice up your sex life with him, so he's always going to be interested, and always going to enjoy sex with the one who truly cares for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2005): Girlie, Just give it to him like you know how to best, and he won't want to.
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