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writes:Just a quick question, is it wrong to sleep with your ex's best friend even though youve been split up a year or so and hes happily in a relationship with somone else?And is it normal that the ex, when they find out, will think that you did it just to annoy them? Or are they actually disgusted or not bothered or think its funny??!I really need some advice on this so Id be happy to hear from anyone this may have happened to!
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reader, Rachx +, writes (30 August 2006):
This has never happened to me however when it comes to me and my friends we would all agree that there is an unwritten rule that kinda goes along the lines of.."you dont sleep with a mates ex - whether its a recent ex an ex from amny moons ago! its a no go area", My Partner also informs me that men too see this as an unwritten rule!I guess in your situation it depends what your rules are and what you think his are - how would you feel if he shacked up with one of your mates? Hope this helps x
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reader, kellyO +, writes (30 August 2006):
 I'm afraid this hasnt happened to me before and i hope u do get reponses from those it has happened to.
I wanted to say that i wouldnt feel disgusted, hilarious or offended to find my ex with my best friend after i have moved on. Why should i really? I dont have a hold on that person no more and they should be free to do anything they wish as long as they are happy.This is just my opinion though but i guess others might feel differently. I just want u to know that as long as u are happy u shouldnt feel ashamed or that u need to justify your affairs with your ex that has apparently moved on with his life.
Take care dearie and all the best.
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