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Is it weird to be scared to say "I love you"?

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Question - (19 January 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2008)
A female United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

It's been 1 1/2 years since i love you was first said, I'm wondering if it's weird that it's not easy for me to say it (to the same guy), like, i'm scared to and i have to build myself up to say it. i don't know why it's like that, since I don't think i'm lying and i don't expect to be rejected when i say it. Has that ever happened to you?

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A female reader, lil miss blond3 her answerin ur questions United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2008):

lil miss blond3 her answerin ur questions agony auntyes this has happened to me i can certainly conect to it but its not weird so dont think that the three word are very effective know and they can sound realy soppy so its not weird to fink that it is so dont worry about it and just let it come out when your relaxed and calm

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A male reader, q1605 United States +, writes (10 February 2008):

q1605 agony auntIt just shows you have your wits about you. It seems people use that word so freely that it carries little weight anymore. To tell another that you love them is to expose the most vulnerable and easily bruised core of your self to the unpredictable whims of human nature. It's taking every thing that makes you distinctly you and setting it at the feet of a person that remains an enigma. And asking them to guard this as if it were their own for the rest of their life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008):

Hi Hunny,

When my fiance told me I have something to tell you I said ok just go!!! He said no I was going to say my feelings have got stronger and I love you. Oh my I thought I new I loved him but was scared to death love so since that day I say I love you is say everyday TAKE CARE LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (20 January 2008):

hello1 agony auntI said I love you to my boyfreind first and it was quite hard, I was afraid he would laugh in my face. Maybe you been hurt in the past? maybe you don't mean it so it's hard to say it? start saying it more to him and if it dosen't get easier, start looking more at your relationship.

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