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writes:Is it weird to ask him if he's interested in me? I met this guy - we like a lot of the same things, both play guitar, both have a weird love for zombies, play video games, movies, are nerdy etc..We met from online and before meeting he told me that we should take walks (he had lost alot of weight and i inquired about it cause i need to do the same..well tone up) so he invited me out for jogging/walks. We met to watch a movie and got along well. He pokes fun at me/is sarcastic. I accidentally hit him a few times - apologized.. so he hit my arm playfully to get back at me. He told me i remind him of his ex's friend.. and he said its not a bad thing but also said its awkward considering he was with his ex for 2 yrs and her friend was always around but also said hes gettin to know me so(im guessin thatll override the thought of his ex's friend). After that i felt weird.. cause to me it sounded like a bad thing. We played a few games and hung out for a bit.. so i decided to leave and he told me not to let what he said bother me because it wasnt bad and not to over think it. He apologized if he was boring (which he wasnt and i told him so..). He gave me a zombie related item and walked me out and hugged me. We talked a bit later and im seein him this week to go for a walk and karaoke.Is he only interested me as a friend or does he like me a smidge? i have trouble picking up signs.. and by sayin im like his ex's friend.. i could just be friend material.. or i dunno. I guess its not super important to know.. considering we just met.. but i was just curious.
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reader, RIKI93dw  +, writes (6 September 2010):
It's not wierd to ask him if he likes you but if you do ask him he could feel caught out I know because a girl I like asked me we are not too far away from you two kind of similar, but just be carefull if you do ask him because it is a long shot in the dark as it was described by the girl who asked me but it was obvious anyone could tell by the way we are around each other. But yeah to answer your question I wouldve thought that he does atleast a little bit he must be feeling sumthing surely. What I think you should do is give a while longer you never know he could just come out with it but if not a you still feel the need to ask him then do so the only reason why I never told the girl who asked me if I fancy her because she already had boyfriend so yeah give it a while before you ask him ok
I hope this helps
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