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writes:I have been in this relationship for about 7 years. we have a 3 year old son and we haven't had sex in almost 3 months. We sleep with seperate blankets sometimes seperate rooms and he don't kiss or hug me. I love him so much and I don't want to break up our family and hurt our child. He says if he didn't want me he wouldn't be here. he works 10 hours, 6 days a week and when he is home it's like he's still gone. I don't know if he has another woman or what to think or what to do. Please help me, I need some good advice as I don't want to make the wrong decision. Help! A desperate lonley mother! Reply to this Question
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reader, Yogichickk +, writes (2 December 2007):
 I think your husband is stressed out. Try to focus less on the lack of sex and more on the real issue why your intimacy vanished. Find a way to his heart so he can open up and tell you the real problem.
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (2 December 2007):
 Well, it seems to me he is just overwhelmed. He is a hard-working father trying to support his own family. What you both need is some time alone away from the house a bit. A one-on-one date for 2! Spice things up a bit. When you work too much, you never notice that you change as a person and all the things you use to do begins to fade. Bring back that excitement you might've had when you both started to go out. Pick a day where your both available, hire a baby-sitter, and enjoy the night out to watch a movie or have dinner. Maybe even stay home and have alone time. Relationships should never die out. Keep up the excitement as you did in the beginning. Good luck!
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