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Is it the whole "chase" thing?

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Question - (16 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi Cupiters!

Question for ya. Ok I really need a guy's point of view..but girls are welcomed to answer as well.

I'm getting to know this guy..he seems cool so far. I can tell he's really into me. But is showing his conceited side now... I have to admit that he is good looking, but I'll never tell him that!

Anyways, lately he's been all cocky and stuff with his smart remarks and I like a guy who's confident but not too much.

So, I'm not showing him that much interest because of it. Now, it seems he's more interested in me. Is it the whole chase thing? Maybe other girls are all over him, but I'm not.. at least yet. Haha.

How should I continue to act around him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008):

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Hi, I'm 27 years old. He's 26..and now he stopped calling. We text last night..he was pretty clear when he said I'll show you interest when I see you in person. And I'll make up for it.

I was just like 'ok'

Yet, he does text good morning and good night. Also, a text throughout the day saying...'Stop thinking about me.' and things of that sort. Haha.

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A female reader, sandra78 United States +, writes (16 December 2008):

Im not sure how old you are.. But if under 20.. This may not apply to you. It sounds like he might want more attention from you. Maybe your not showing enough intrest in him. You have to realize that men have a short attention span.. If you don't let him know that your into him, he just may move on. Its not a bad thing to let him know that he's hot.. Or in his case, confirm it. A wise man once told me.. " IF YOU STROKE A MAN'S PENIS... YOU'LL GET HIM FOR 1 NIGHT. IF YOU STROKE HIS EGO... YOU'LL GET HIM FOR LIFE." Go ahead.. Lay it on.

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A male reader, natedawg61 United States +, writes (16 December 2008):

I am 22 and I would say you should show more affection to keep him but not too much becuase he might get nervous around you. Anyway you should try to talk to him more and just be most like yourself.

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