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writes: Three weeks ago, my boyfriend (4 months) told me that we needed a break. I got a bit upset, so I told him that I wasn't going to wait for nothing to happen. Now I really miss him. I see him at school everyday and it hurts. Since he wanted a break, is there a chance that we can get back together? And if so, how can I go about manipulating the situation? With some guys, I know that the relationship is over, but with him, it just doesn't seem over yet. Do I have a chance, or should I just move on? We were best friends, so this makes it even harder. Thanks
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reader, AuntyYasmin +, writes (5 February 2006):
Well does he still talk to you or anything? You haven't given much information. But if he is getting on with his life now, then you should get on with his. Don't put your life on hold. Breaks can be good to have some space but go out with friends and enjoy yourself. Carry on with your life.
If in a few more weeks nothing happens, then go to him and talk to him and tell him you respect his decision that he does not want to be with you, but because of your feelings for him, you can't stay best friends. Say you don't mind being friends, and would love to him to stay in your life.
But for your own good, try being distant with him, it will make things easier and you can see the whole situation from a clearer perspective. In the mean time, keep having fun!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2006): it really depends on who you choose to listen too, i for one dont beleive in breaks, they just cause tention, id leave it and go find yourself a new guy.
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