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writes:I've got a question for girls who don't want a long term relationship, is it really a bad thing to spend time with the person you said you care about? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u, i just dont understand y she doesnt want a long-term relationship we both care bout each other and enjoy spending time with each other so whats wrong with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah never thought of it like that so thank you,
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010): Your question is a little oddly formulated, but I will try to answer what I think you are asking. So, you want to be long-term with this girl and she doesn't want the same? But you think there's no harm in spending time with each other because you care for each other?
You see, what happens when you spend time with someone you care about as more than friends, is that feelings are developed. And once they grow stronger it's hard to leave. If she doesn't want anything long-term, she needs to guard her feelings and not get attached to anyone. Thats why she can't spend a lot of time with someone she cares about, out of fear that feelings will grow stronger.
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