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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Is it possible to flirt and talk dirty to someone via email and verbally and not be physically attracted to them? I.E.. would you flirt with someone that you had no physical chemistry with?And is it possible to draw a line if the flirting its too much or is it likely to consume you?
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (6 December 2007):
 Hello!
Yes it is TOTTALLY POSSABLE! I am married with four kids and love my husband dearly, but I have a few friends spread throughout the world whom I regularly chat with, some are male and one in particular I flirt with a fair amount. He lives in the usa and we shall never meet, I get on well with his fiance too.
I am not attracted to him, nor he to me, however we have a good laugh while flirting, even sometimes getting a little naughty, but it is totally harmless fun. It gives us both a little confidence boost, and a damn good laugh trying to think of something that will out do what the other just said.
If you are cybering with random women, and actually physically turned on, (ie actually doing to yourself what is said in the cyber) then maybe you need to re-evaluate what your trying to achieve, after all, there are sites where you pay for that sort of thing. Cyber and online flirting should be fun for both parties, not something for you to get off on.
that would be your line, if its fun its fine, if its sexually satifying its not.
A little side not, most women dont flirt with men because they fancy them, they flirt to give themselves confidence boosts.
I hope that answers your questions, I know its a little random, but so is your question lol.
Take care xxxx
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