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writes:ok, basically i've finally started getting close to the guy i've liked for 18 mnths or so, only to find he's perfect a true gent but i've gone off him, i really don;t want to be one of those girls who only likes the chase. I do keep thinking bout my ex from 2.5 yrs ago but he is no good, do you think i'm not over him, need help how can i fancy my dream guy again !!!!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (22 May 2007):
 Can I act on a hunch here and guess that your ex from 2.5 years ago was the first guy you were ever in love with?
I'm not sure anyone ever lives up to the very first love you experience because not only is it love, which is pretty amazing, it's the novelty of it being the first time. Is there any chance that you're losing interest with new guy because you're not feeling the same you felt for the ex? It might be worth giving this guy a chance. Take things slowly, don't jump in with both feet and maybe your feelings will develop. I'm thinking it's infinitely more likely that you would be a chaser and then into serious relationships rather than the other way round so don't worry! Good luck.
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