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writes:i am in a committed relationship.i and my bf really love and understand each other.well one of my close friend asked me to watch blue films with him.just for fun.i don't know what to do.is it ok to watch a blue film with my friend?we are just friends..while talking with my bf,i told him about this topic.he took it very lightly as if nothing is going to happen.what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell...umm...my bf said nuthin to me regarding this matter and i am very comtrolled and my close frnd too. we can never think to cross our limits.ne ways thanx 4 ur views.
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reader, Shashi +, writes (2 March 2010):
Things always start small. You have said that you already have a BF and that you talked to him regarding this matter and that he was cool with it. Even I would have been cool with it cause it is just "watching" a blue film, that's all BUT you have to look at the other side too. This matter is no big deal and so does not affect you or your BF much. But in the long run this may be a potential source of conflict/misundertsnding. So why invite unnecessary trouble? You must talk to your close friend and politely refuse, saying that you think it is inappropriate. You could perhaps suggest to this friend that he watch it with his GF (if he has any) or watch it with any of his other male friends. Ofcourse, this suggestion can only be given because he is a "close" friend. If you still are unclear about anything you can message me and I'll try to help as best as possible. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2010): No it's not it's connected to pornography!
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