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Is it normal to have feelings for a same sex friend?

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Question - (27 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am a girl and i have had feelings towards my bestfriend for about a year, she is also a girl, i told my other friend who told her about my feelings, now it is awqward and she is really against lesbians, i feel sickened with my self at it and im really worried that she will never forgive me, i hate my self for it, is it normal to have so strong feelings for you bestfriend who is the same sex as you?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2009):

Dear confused girl, who is to say what is and is not natural there is nothing wrong with your feelings. Remember if you can consider this girl a bestfriend then she should love you and be there for you no matter what. i strongly reccomend exploring your sexuality find a girl you can experiment with even if it isnt the girl you wnat now. you may find that your fellings for her are nothing more than strong feelings of affection because you guys were very close. If you find that you do happen to like girls then dont let the bff get you down millions of single girls are waiting to be found and just because you may not get who you want now doesnt mean you wont find the same thing with another girl who is just as great!

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