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Is it normal to climax quickly after the first round of sex?

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Question - (17 May 2013) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2013)
A male Kenya age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello guys, this is a thing disturbing me and I'll try keeping this question as short as possible.

Am 19 and whenever I've sex my first round is like a "quickie". I can bearly last for more than 2 min but the second and third round I can at least last a bit longer compared to the the first one.

To women, do your men really suffer from this? And to men is this really normal for the first round, if no what can I do/remedy? Thanks in advance any advice or reply will be highly appreciated. Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2013):

Yeah, that's what he says helps, worth a try I guess :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2013):

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you shouldn't be thanking me, it should be me thanking u instead. you mean he last longer while with urine? am yet to try that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2013):

Also, he just told me that he finds it easier to last if he needs to pee.. I don't know if this works for everyone.

Thanks for the follow up by the way :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013):

Well I know from where I'm sitting that when he's making things last longer, even for long sessions, he just slows down for a while, until he can speed up again and hold it.

He thinks of things that aren't turn ons and that helps.

:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013):

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Thanks for your reply. Am not so much into sex, infact I dont often have it. Thanks again and atleast there is this second round hahaha... If you have some tips he uses on you to last longer dont mind explainig I'll appreciate that too. Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2013):

My partner can get this way if we haven't had sex in a while, but that's normal.

You didn't mention how often you have sex, but if it's the same thing, increasing how often you have sex may make you last a little longer.

If not it may just be an issue of premature ejaculation and something you could talk to your GP about getting treatment for.

I personally don't mind when my partner doesn't last, as long as there is a second round ;)

Just talk about it with your sexual partner and discuss whether it's an issue for them or not, as well.

It's your body, though, and if it bothers you then fix it :)

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