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writes:helloIs it normal to run behind a girl for 2 years that you had a relationship with for only one month? Why does it feel like I have to? I've got no control over my feelings. Is this romance or madness?thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, home_land +, writes (31 March 2007):
home_land is verified as being by the original poster of the question hello ,and thank you very muchi really did that it was a struggle of search after that month until now i dont know where she is, to be left without note or answer is something bad, and it did drive me mad its a long story and you can make a film out of itthank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): Is it not madness to like someone for much longer than you have been out with them. Just remember, if they don't feel the same way back then it is not fair.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 The technical term for that is "obsession". If she's made it clear that it's over, and you're still chasing her, you've got a serious problem. It isn't "her" that you're really after, but something that she represents to you.
This sounds like a job for professional help. You've got to sort out the fantasy from the reality and figure out what you REALLY need here. Once you understand yourself and your own motivations, you can start a search for a REAL woman who can be a real partner to you and perhaps help you meet the needs that are really part of your life.
But don't delay getting help. This isn't going to get better by itself.
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