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writes:Hiya,Well, I was just wondering if it was normal for some men not to be into sex...?My boyfriend of 18 months goes through sages when he is like a rabbit then dosent want to do nothing. Of course he never turn down the blow job when he is like this but when it comes to actual sex he dose turn me down more often or says things that makes me apprehensive in trying it on. When it comes to him as a guy and sex he just dosent see it as important in a relationship but I do to a certain point. It took me about 6 months to get him to touch me under my underwear and then 12 months for him to go down on me he hasn't got a problem now but to begin with he did.He is a very cuddly guy and I love that he is like that, its the thing i love most abut him. But i jut ont understand him....Any thoughts would be appreciated...
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reader, weebooger  +, writes (31 July 2011):
 my boyfriend is the same way and it drives me insaine. i've learne that several things affect his sex drive. if he is stressed out hes not at all into it. sex is added stress, some men are let down if the girl doesn't get off and if already stressed they don't want to deal with that as well. also if i let my insecurits shine it kills his mood. like the others said sex drive differs i think its normal for men to go through stages like that. like you i feel sex is an important part of a relationship but my bf doesn't feel its as important as i do. when he goes though those stages it doesn't mean hes not into you or anything like that. you could try and spice things up a little. my bf also tells me not to ask (i have a bad habbit of doing that) he says if you want it come get it.
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reader, Starmonster888 +, writes (31 July 2011):
 "no sex mode"?! the horror! benard is correct though, sex drives differ.
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