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writes:My bf is 30 and I'm 32. We've been together a year and only see each other on weekends because we live an hour away. He will usually spend the whole weekend at my place. The sex is good but not frequent enough for my taste. I would want it at least 2 times but it usually ends up being just once per weekend and sometimes not at all. He told me that he had a lot of sex when he was in his early 20s but his libido is now very low. He's never really in the mood. It's an issue for me because I like to connect that way and I need it. It also makes me feel not desirable even though I know he's attracted to me. Is it normal at 31 not to have such a low libido? He was also a drug addict in his early 20s but quit severl years ago. I've never really seriously talked about it with him. He's told me a few times that it was embarrassing for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2012): I am the sam way so I understand what you're saying. Is he willing to see a doctor for it? I would be concerned if my sex drive was that low at 31. Maybe you could show him how concerned you are and say you would be willing to go to the doctor with him. I know men are very sensitive about this issue, but he might have low testosterone or something and could be greatly helped by a medical professional.
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