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writes:Is it ever wise to send the new girlfriend an anonymous message about what a cheat her boyfriend is? I figure I could do it a number of ways without anyone knowing. The old buzzard cheated with me on her, and even called her to say he was tired and going to bed while he was looking at me... I didn't really care cause the guy's a jerk. So, why do I want to tell her? Cause the guy's a jerk. I ditched him, and I know he's a predator. I think she's head over heels for him - what a mistake! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo hidden agenda...I just know this guy is a loser and a phony...
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reader, Chata  +, writes (10 January 2009):
 You may not like it, but you should probably tell her. It would be best for it to come from him, but that is clearly not going to happen. I wouldn't let her continue to get deeper into it, knowing what you know. That is cruel, in my opinion. If you tell her and she just doesn't listen, then it is her fault when she is hurting even worse later on. Just do what you think you should do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009): This may not be the popular answer, but if it were me, I'd want to know. Do what you would want someone to do for you. Just be sure you are right and that you don't have any hidden agenda.
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