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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm currently in a relationship with someone who I love very much. Not only is he smart, quirky and good-looking, but he's wonderful in bed. I always find myself thinking/fantasizing about him. My only complaint within our relationship is that we don't have sex often enough for my liking, even though when we do it's primarily when HE wants to (which isn't a problem for me, because I usually want to almost all the time). I feel like I'm always the one who's sending him cute/flirty texts and I try to get him in the mood whenever we see each other. We've been having sex about 4 times a month, but is it a bad thing that I crave more, especially as a woman? Also, how do I talk to him about this without coming across as too demanding?
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (12 April 2013):
I'm a firm believer in the power of desire. It's very healthy to long for someone/something.
If you overdo it then you run the risk of getting bored with sex. So my advise would be to do it just a bit less than you would prefer, so you keep longing for each other in between.
I'd say once a week isn't that bad. It could be much 'worse' (some people would kill for once a week).
Do either of you masturbate? If you don't then I would do it in between the sex. That should give you some relief.
If he masturbates then you might want to ask him if he wouldn't prefer having sex with you than with himself.
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