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writes:My gf recently moved back to france and i will be visiting her in 3 months, till then i suggested we stay in a relationship but she seems to want to break up although she said she still loves me she wont get with anyone till then she doesnt want to feel like she has to talk to me all the time as she is going to be busy...I'm wondering if she is testing me till then or if she has decided to move on, its really hard as this is the first girl i have fallen in love with( i have been with many girls) and i want to be ready for whatever comesThanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): Sounds like she is making it easier for both of you. While breaking up there wont be as much pressure on you both ..think about it. If u stay in a relationship with the label she or you might expect more from each other IE: for communication, care packages etc basically showing attention and initiating things which can become one sided and one might start worrying what the other is doing. Breaking up ease's that and you can both feel free yet however stay in contact untill you are back with eachother in the phsyical. Hope this helps. I suggest go with it and dont think about it to much even tho its hard because i am going through this right now lol. take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): Well maybe she just wants to go her own way because long distance relationships dont go well i dont think it would probably be hard for her to cope with it, talk to her about it.
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