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Is he shy and lonely? Or am I just not his type?

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Question - (15 September 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 September 2011)
A female Ireland age 36-40, *luebelle10 writes:

One guy in particular stands out at my current job

But what I really need advice on is do you think he is shy and a bit lonely?

He comes across one moment quite aloof almost arrogant and ignores me and the next laid back and childish!

Recently his been hanging around me a lot and when I ask if I can help he just walks off mumbling it's nothing or starts pointless conversations. There is also a lot of eye contact between us and I often catch him staring at me. He often asks me what he should have for dinner too!

I've been told he is gay (but you could never tell he was he doesn't act up to the stereotypical campness) so I don't believe I'm his type but do you think maybe his just shy and wants to maybe hang out? Next time he mentioned dinner should I invite him to go?

Thanks.

Lucy

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A female reader, Madalo 1 Malawi +, writes (17 September 2011):

Sure, why not? Take him out, hang, and see how it goes from there. If he's interested he'll open up more.

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