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22-25,
Emj85
writes:Okay its me again......I sent an email on 28th dec because i had broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months over whether he would support me if i got pregnant. We had used double protection (i went on the pill, he used condoms) but he had trouble getting....up so he asked if we could try it with just me taking the pill so i asked would he stick by me if anything went wrong. This was my question.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-over-him-i-miss.htmlWell it's been a month and i got an email off him 3 days after we split saying that he wanted to remain close friends but he only saw our destiny as great friends and not as partners and that i will always be special and he's glad he let someone so special into his life. After that i emailed him back and said i wanted to remain friends too so he replied and said i'm glad we can still be friends with no grudges, but i think we should wait a while before any contact and since then i've had nothing - i don't know whether he's playing with my feelings or being genuine. My friends say sack it, ignore him but i still love him and still cry at night about it, i'm still not sure why we broke up and i want to send an email to ask that but don't know if i'd be giving him an ego boost. It's making me depressed because i can't seem to close it as he said he still wants to be friends. I've tried to get out more like going swimming, joining slimming world (part of me feels he we broke up because i was quite big) and trying to keep myself occupied at work but anything i see that reminds me of him or a song etc i get sad again.:-(Sorry for long postAny advice???Thanks v much Emxxxxxxx
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (29 January 2008):
 Let him go and never come back! He hurts you even now!
You were only together for 4 months, so you shouldn't have been able to get so close. You'll heal in time!
You deserve love and happyness and they'll come.
Keep having fun and try to meet other guys.
Oh, and from a very big girl: a man who breaks up with you over your weight is not worth having! If you want to lose weight, do it for yourself, because it'll make you healthyer.
God bless you and send you true love!
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reader, Trinnity08 +, writes (29 January 2008):
 if you still have feeling for this guy , do you honestly think you could just be freinds ??? maybe you should contact him if he really wants to be freinds then it should be a mutual thing not one sided , just make sure your ready xx trinnity
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