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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy "Ben" 2 or 3 months ago and we got on really well. A few weeks ago we were out dancing one night when he kissed me and said he really likes me. So far so good right :) In the taxi home that night (we live near each other) he brought up that a common friend of ours told him I'd just got out of a 3 year relationship. I didn't say much in reply because it was about 2 am and I wanted to be asleep. Now this relationship I ended over 7 months ago and in reality it should have ended 2 years before that, so I'm well and truly over it, but Ben doesn't know any of that detail. He hasn't said anything about it since, but he has been moving really slowly with me, like we've kissed once since the first time, and he's held my hand once. It's a while since I've been in the early stages of dating but I think that's pretty slow moving for people our age (23), right? So I'm wondering if I should do something, make more moves on him or bring up my ex again? (I hear it's not good to bring up ex's?) Do you think he is moving slowly because he thinks maybe I'm not ready for anything? Or doesn't like me that much? We see each other about once a week.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): Ask him why he wanted to know about your ex and tell him that you will tell him what he wants to know.Tell him that you feel strongly for him and you would like it if you two were serious.See what he says...
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