A
female
age
36-40,
*weet and sassy
writes:hey ppl. iv got a huge problem an yes its about a guy! iv been seeing a guy for about 5weeks and to him its just abit of fun but to me its alot more! so iv carried on meeting him and sleeping with him! i no i shudnt but i just cant help myself i no im deluded in thinking hel ever really want me! but we get on so well its not always about sex cos he stayd at mine the other nite an we had a drink i cookt him tea an we watched films an went to bed an DIDNT have sex! an also he had a girlfriend when we met but finish with her soon after. an theyd been together for 2years so i obviosly thought there was sum hope! but then last nite he was suposed to come see me and let me down at the last min. i wa gutted. an i no i shudnt let him get to me. but im fallìng for him. i txt him this morning an said 'do u want to meet up soon?' an he txtbk sayin 'i dont no' whats going on?! hes becomin less intrested everyday. WHAT DO I DO? pls help. xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): You're a play-toy to him.
You can want more, need more, cry about not getting more, and anything else you want. It doesn't matter.
You both know what this is. So you need to take responisbility for the damage that you are doing to yourself if you keep this up. Don't blame him for it later.
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reader, DeeLayla +, writes (21 November 2007):
you ask him what he wants truly and f he wants a relationship if he says no you should break up the seeing eachother as that can lead to more heartbreak for you.
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