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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,Ive been in a relationship with a guy for quite a short time, but at the moment am feeling unsettled and insecure about the relationship. As we've only been together a short time i'm not asking for a large amount of commitment but he does not show me any! When we're in public he never puts his arm around me or holds my hand and on a social networking site his status is still set to single. I really like this guy and want our relationship to work and maybe eventually become serious! In private he shows me affection but sometimes it just feels like he's being hot and cold :o( He is a very attractive guy and i feel a lot of pressure to keep my weight down and always look my best. On top of all this his ex who is a complete psycho has started txting him and some girl who is obsessed with him rings him at 4am. He won't tell her he has a girlf, is he keeping her hanging on jst in case he gets bored of me?Please help i'm confused and miserable
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reader, keepitreal03  +, writes (10 April 2009):
Its possible he doesn't want anybody to know.if he cared and has respect for u and ur relationship he would tell them in front of u to not call or text him at late hours he has a girl. He should have been upset! But don't believe that his ex is crazy because guys pull that card all the time to make an excuse of why there actual girlfriend is calling so much like where are u. Or someone they are dating and tell the new girl oh she's crazy! they will even let u read or listen to convos, and its funny cause if she is saying crazy things u have no idea what's going on between them so u can't say she crazy or obsessed guys use that to get u to believe them and hate the ex or the girl that's calling. But I feel like he should be open why is he hiding or trying to front like he doesn't have a girl??? U might wanna dig deeper
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