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writes:okay, i have a huge problem me and this guy talked for 6 months and then starting dating and going steady well i went to a party and i got really drunk and me and his brother kissed and well he found out like 5 months later and we are no longer together but he is all i think about and i do love him and i want us to be together but he doesnt want me hanging out with anyone but him but he doesnt call me cause he says he dont have too and i dont know what to do is he just doing this cause he wants me to know how he feels or what???? HElP me i have to get him back
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reader, michelleAKAmandi +, writes (6 October 2008):
 This is sort of confusing.
You're NOT together...
but he doesn't want you hanging out with anyone but him? and
he doesn't call you?
If you are not together then of course he doesn't have to call you.
If you are not together then why would you hang out with him and no one else?
You have to lay it on the line. Tell him that you love him, that you want to be with him, but you can't cut yourself off from the world. That's just crazy. You made a mistake and if he can forgive you, then that's great, but he is not forgiving you if he tells you that you can be around no one else but him.
If he is NOT going to be your boyfriend, which you need to find out!!!!!, then there is no need in you hanging around. No matter how much you love him. I know it may hurt, but you are causing yourself misery by going about this the wrong way. Buck up and tell him you want to be with him and you have to know if that is possible. Then go from there. Don't leave any questions unanswered that make you crazy. Talk about what happened, explain to him that it won't happen again and that you are very sorry for it. I don't excuse what you have done by any means, that was just wrong, but if he can forgive and forget, then maybe you two can have something again.
Go to him... stop wondering and driving yourself crazy!!
Good luck sweetie,
Michelle
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