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writes:Hello everyone, Ive met this really nice guy over plenty of fish we speak on the phone everyday have done for around maybe 2 months or coming up 2 it but weve never met but seem to get on he goes on about moving in and stuff and already says stuff like love ya Anyway last nite i saw my ex bf in the road who i had miscarage with and he was really nasty 2 me, shouting and laughing to everyone it was all my fault that i lost baby etc anyway i told this guy what had happened and the guy went a little quiet after i said what my ex had said i would only get another guy to get a baby out of After we got off the phone i txt him(pof guy) that i wasnt like that i want to be happy in my life etc then when time is right have a baby Then out of the blue he said i dont mind having a baby with love ya and 2 kissies on the end I thought it was sweet him saying that but we havent even met yet only with pics and over the phone Could he be serious or just messing around maybe hes just trying to keep me sweet for a leg over lol is he moving to fast???
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reader, RennieGeek  +, writes (28 October 2010):
I can't believe that you want to talk to him when you've never met him and he's saying stuff like that. As someone who has been on POF and other dating websites, anytime a guy ever talked like that it totally freaked me out. I would say he is moving too fast.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 Well i personnally think that you are both moving to fast its great that you guys can get on well over the net and can talk on the phone but you need to spend time together as a couple first to make sure that you both get on with each other before you start thinking of getting a place together or having a baby. So tell him that you want to get to no him more in person before you both start talking about the serious stuff.
Meet up with him a few times before you sleep with him this should give you an idea if he only wants one thing because he will be pushy and then moody if you dont have sex with him.
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