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thewomanmenwant
writes:Spending your time dropping hints or asking a man where things are going is wasting air. Please stop chasing men down for commitment and start learning how to inspire a man to commit to you.We know how difficult it is to change behavior because habits are hard to break. We know that you are used to responding to men with the same patterns and we also know that if you're begging a man for a commitment you're not going to feel good about yourself.So drop the mama complex where you are his 24/7 helicopter woman and refuse from being an emotional motor mouth. If you're secretly seething because you're frustarted that it is yet another year and he still doesn't have a clue if he wants you, we know that you know that you should dump him.What you may not be aware of is, if a man waffles between his desire to want a commitment, you're being taken for a joy ride and the only thing he's riding on is your ability to not say "NO" to him.Use this secret: In order to simulate a man to want a commitment, you have to bring out the HUNTER in him. People hunt for things they don't have. Sometimes you have to dump a man in order for you to trigger the hunt in him. This shifts the balance of power in the relationship.Maybe you don't want to dump him, you may want to keep him because after all, it's love. If he's been thinking that things are just peachy and that you'll never leave, now is the time to either change his mindset or start to implement a way to create deep feelings of intense attraction in him so that you can trigger the hunt.It feels so much better when a man is falling down at your feet and professing his undying love instead of wondering if he's afraid of commitment. Reply to this Article
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): In order to dump a pussyhunter you have to have go out with one.
Most men who are capable of loving were once PH's.
Women who manage to get a man to commit before he's ready may be smart. Marrying him is stupid.
Men know when they are ready to commit. But that doesnt mean it will work.
Playing the field gets emotionally draining after a while. The sex is great but you begin to realise you were happier when you were with a special woman you loved than a few who you really like.
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reader, thewomanmenwant +, writes (22 October 2009):
thewomanmenwant is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSmart women dump the pussy hunters, the emotionally unavailable and the "commitment phobes" - smart women don't waste their time on these kinds.
Many men want to hunt pussy without wanting to share intimacy or take responsibility for being in a relationship. Smart women dump these kinds too.
Bringing out the hunter is about giving a man a natural challenge so that the balance of power is equal in a relationship. She shouldn't keep nagging. If a woman isn't getting what she wants, she has to challenge a man in a way that is emotionally mature.
This usually does not involve talking to a man. This does not work. Men only respond to action. A woman has to change her behavior instead. She has to bring the man to the place where he can choose to pursue her or not.
Pussy hunters should be dumped because they don't know how to love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): Thats not very good advice. You started off ok but had more deviouse ways of changing his behavioure that are more manipulative. As the goal is to get commitment and your fed up the way things are. How you gonna feel when single and left on the shelf.
And before you go bringing out the hunter in us. Lets get one thing clear. We do not hunt commitment. We hunt pussy.
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reader, Megaf  +, writes (10 October 2009):
How do you drop him ,like forget his love ??..it is soo complex
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2009): Haha!
I totally agree! DUMP HIS ARSE! And if he gets married 2 weeks later, well it was never going to be.
These things are easy to do, its the heartbreak afterwards that is hard to deal with.
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