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Is either event an indication of attraction? If so, how come?

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Question - (4 May 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2012)
A male Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello. I have a question, about a couple of wonderful events that happened. These involve different girls.

First event:

I had to go home. I was at the college I attend. Now, the area I was at had very limited navigational space. And, there was a crowd of girls touring.

As I was leaving by the only way possible, there was a girl right in my way. I didn't mind. However, instead of just letting me just pass by, it seems that as soon as I was walking in her general direction (It was the only way to leave the current room.), she turned her whole body, and asked me if I liked my courses. I said "Yes".

Then, I had to go, however, as I didn't want to keep the pets at home lonely for much longer. Question about the first event: I wonder why she did that? Was it an attraction thing?

Second event:

I was at the same room, and this was in the middle of the semester before the one I just had. As I was leaving, this super-nice-lookin' girl was looking at me. I could tell, as there was nothing else she was looking at.

I noticed that as she was walking, she seemed to purposefully keep me in her sight. Like, as if she was locked onto me. However, the only dangerous thing about this event is, well, she was carrying books, and she was walking dangerously close around tables, walls.

Like, she could have easily bumped into a table/wall, and have had a terrible paper cut. But, of course, this did NOT happen. This girl didn't really say anything. Just locked her eyes onto me. At that time, I found it a little unusual, as I wasn't accustomed to having that kind of attention from a girl, before. However, it sure felt like she was going to rush over to talk to me. Question about second event: Do girls do things like locking their eyes on someone who appeals to them? Or, was it possible that she just liked what she saw?

I realize this is a really long post, and all. Heh. But, I really would like to have a few answers, on these 2 events, please. Thanks, in advance.

-Marvin.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2012):

I think I wore some underarm. When I shower, I do my best to smell good, for the dames!

I guess it's probable, that all are scent-related, as whenever I have a good, light scent, BOOM! I get a few looks/smiles from the girls. I just hope that, if they compete for me, that they don't do something too drastic, as their "Competing" should be a fun thing, rather than a war-like event.

I'll update more situations, if there's more events, that happen.

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A male reader, Glacier Belgium +, writes (12 May 2012):

Do you wear a fragrance? This could explain the new 'incident' and possibly the others if they smelled you coming.

It has been a while I used an after shave but recently started again with it. I quickly noticed more female attention, like this girl in a shop which showed me something I was looking for. She moved close to me and looked at me a couple of times while I was looking at the object. I think she was taking a whiff. :-)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2012):

Ok. Thanks. I have been wondering about that. Like, the girl that turned her whole body towards me before even starting to talk, I think it was an obvious one. She probably didn't want to make it too apparent, as she was taking a tour, during that time. However, I'm betting she had a high probability of wanting to flirt on some degree.

Last week, there's been another case, with, yet, another girl. She kept using her whole chest to bump into me. I think she bumped me a few times. Then, once she saw I wasn't going anywhere, yet, I was curious, she just took me into her arms. I think I even heard her sigh and lightly moan, as she did that.

Thanks, eh, for having answered. I was beginning to wonder why nobody was answering this question. Heh.

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A male reader, Glacier Belgium +, writes (10 May 2012):

They both could have been flirting a bit, but it's not that hard to make things up which aren't actually true (wishful thinking).

If you meet one of them again, you could try to chat. See what happens.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2012):

Just to add, the girl from the first event turned her body towards me. She asked about if I liked my courses, and I answered with a yes. Unfortunately, I had to leave, as I was in a hurry.

-Marvin.

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