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Is admitting you are "scared" unattractive?

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Question - (29 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2009)
A male United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Would most women think less of a man they were in a relationship with if he admitted he was truly scared or fearful of something that maybe the woman didn't find fearful?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009):

I think it takes alot of guts for a man to admit anything let alone their fears, if she thinks your less of a man for being honest then i think the relationship might be the problem...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009):

If any girl would actually be annoyed with u for being scared of something then she's a bitch, fake and a hypocrit. o_x (too much words? mm maybe :P) But well u get the idea, its not unattractive.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009):

I believe it does affect how a woman perceives a man. She typically relies on his strengths, and if she can't, then she may start looking elsewhere for that strong man.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2009):

No.

My husband does not like heights. I like to dance on cliff tops.

If there is a spider you won't see me for dust, where as he can just deal with it.

We all have our own fears and we all know they are stupid. It's just being human. If she does laugh at you then she's not very nice and you may not want to be with her.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009):

I can only speak for myself, but for me it would depend on whether or not the fear had a rational basis, and on how much it affected the relationship.

Good luck. x

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