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writes:So I have been with this guy I have been "seeing" since August, I am afraid I am catching alot of feelings for him, when I don't hear from him and don't see him I am cranky as all heck lol. I am afraid that I have these feelings while he may not share the sentiments. I am curious if you think after 8 months I should tell him how I am feeling, I am terrified the feelings I have will not be reciprocated. He says he never likes to put any kind of label on anything for at least a year and doesn't I don't think believe that we have been together that whole time so does the year start when we started seeing each other when he finds it appropriate? And do I tell him how I feel or just go with the flow and let whatever happens happen? Sincerly Confuzzled and Perplexified Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 May 2010):
 I believe what you are trying to get out of the question is more than just "do you like me back?" If you had been married once and have a kid already, you would have a much relaxed attitude. If you have been single all your life I can understand you being cranky. He obviously likes you if he's with you for 8 months. Does he like you enough to make a step forward in the relationship. It's important to let the man be in charge but assuming you don't have kids but want kids and settle down, sometimes you have to be selfish (in a good way) and find someone who wants the same thing you do. Otherwise, there is nothing wrong with just romantically enjoying each other company.
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reader, EmoGir0 +, writes (4 May 2010):
 I think you should tell him how you feel. If the feelings aren't reciprocated then he doesn't like you like he says he does and he isn't the guy for you. Not everyone is the perfect person for you even if you think they are.Tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same.
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