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writes:This is going to sound realy wierd... but is fourteen too young to be in love? I know it probably won't last and I really doubt my boyfriend and I will be together 'forever' but is it possible my feelings can be really deep, and that he also recipricates them? Sorry if I sound like an immature little girl, but I really am curious!!
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reader, Whos that chick xxx +, writes (13 March 2011):
 :) i don't think your being immature for asking such a good question :) and yes you can fall in love at any age such as 14 to older such as my 61yr nan has fallen in love with a 60 yr man who is wonderful and don't forget you can fall in love more than once :) i hoped this helped youu :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): Yes, of course. I had my first girlfriend when I was 13, and it lasted pretty long. However, you must learn to make difference between passion and love. You truly love someone if your heart won't heal for at least 1 year if you stop seeing each other. People who really love each other are very rare.Passion is when your girlfriend is just someone who you go out and you call her ,,my girl''. Passion is a play in which the goal is to get disappointed. Only for expert players.If you are unexperienced then it usually happens that a girl ,,loves'' a boy who deosn't return ,,love'' to her. I wrote ,,'' because that is not true love. If you ask your heart it will give you all the answers.
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Yes you can fall in love at 14. Juliet (in Romio and Juliet)
was only 14. I loved a boy at your age and it is one of my most treasured memoried from childhood, because it was my last pure and innocent love. We went swimming and took long walks, and shyly kissed and held hands and rode our bikes 8 miles just to see each other. It was heavenly. It only lasted a summer but we stayed friends for a few more years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): I don't think you are immature at all, the fact that you asked this question is very mature of you.To answer you question, Most definately your feelings can be really deep, and yes you can be inlove at fourteen.Whether he recipricates those feelings depends entirely on him and your relationship.An example:I first started dating my boyfriend at 14, fell in love with him and 7 years later we are still inlove and going strong. And my Parents met at 14 they are still together happily marriedJust be completely honest with yourself. You will know if it is love or not and nobody can tell you how to feel.
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Your not going to like this but... your not in love!
Your suffering,(and I "DO" mean suffering)form something called "Infatuation".
Not to worry. There isn't a single person that has ever lived, that hasn't succumb to this affliction at one time or another. It will pass.
For now, just have fun, and don't think that it's anything more than it what really is.
True love will come soon enough, and when it does,
you still won't be ready for it!
Love's a funny thing. It is simultaneously the most wonderful and awful state a person can find themself in.
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