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writes:I dont know if im wrong,but i dont think so. My boyfriend doesnt want me to talk to male friends,he doesnt want me to sleep at my relatives' houses,he wants to know where i am,with who and if i delay picking up his phone call,he starts shouting.we have been dating for 3years and he just started this 3months back.i dont understand him anymore.he wants me to be around him and his friends and freaks out when i fail to make it.is that normal?at times he ignores me for hours because of that,should i b calling him when he is quet?im confused Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2011): hi, in what way does he mean he is concerned? Concerned you will be harmed if he is not there to protect you? Or concerned about where you're relationship is going?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for the advice. i have tried to comunicating with him but it's not working. he tells me he loves me and he is just concerned
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2010): hiya, sorry to hear that your having a bad time at the moment. i have found through experience that some men do this when they have a guilty feeling about stuff they are doing. has your man become a bit distant emotionally towards you? if so this can indicate that he maybe interested in another female or is seeing someone behind your back. some people judge others behaviour by their own standards. silly i know but it does happen. just ask him why he has trust issues with you now when it was never a problem before? is there new people in your circle of friends? he could feel threatened if there is an interesting new male. men get insecure if there is a new alpha male coming into your life and you are interacting with them with interest. these are 2 possiblities. the only way to find out is to communicate. good luck x
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