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In love with my brother's best friend

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Question - (29 October 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 October 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *eart245 writes:

I know I am fifteen and am awfully young to be saying the L-word but I am being completely honest when I tell you this. I AM IN LOVE! Most people would think well thats nice she has a crush but in my case i havent told many people of my crush because of a few factors, he is my brothers best friend, his little sister is my best friend, and he is 4 years older then I.

Before you start to judge though let me tell you a little of the back story. I met him when he was a freshman in high school I had not met his little sister yet. I have always had a crush on him but it wasnt until recently that he began to talk to me more and not tell my brother or his sister about our conversations. Though we dont have anything to hide from them we dont tell them how much we actually talk. Recently we began going to the park together every sunday to play basketball by ourselves, and though he has never told me what he thinks of me he does act entirely different when he is with my brother, his sister, or alone with me.

I am unsure of what to do please help!

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A female reader, heart245 United States +, writes (29 October 2011):

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Thank you :) and by differently i dont know there are subtle differences like the mere fact that he doesnt look at me as much. But when we are alone he is really nice, and sweet.

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A female reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2011):

xTheAlmightyDuckx agony auntI do believe you are in love so lets get that out of the way with, i know it won't be as strong as adults but as i am young i hate it how so many people think because your a teenager your not capable to love someone.

Anyway back to the buisness.

He is four years older than you so that would make him 19 if i am correct. You obviously love him and have for a while now and when your alone together you talk alot well so far it is a good sign.

As you say he acts different around your brother? what do you mean by that? good way or bad way? You see along the way i have meet boys who were as nice as anything on there own but when they with there mates normanally boy ones they would turn into a right nasty douche bag.

Anyway if you are desperate to know what he things off you i find the best way is to play a game, you say you play basketball with him right? well heres a little game its pretty much like truth or dare.

Tell him that each time one person gets the ball through the hoop the other person has to pick truth or dare, when he picks truth ask him a subtle qeustion like "which girl do you fancy?" Or "what do you think about me?" it should give you a bit of an idea of what he thinks about you (feed off his body launguge to).

Good luck.

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