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In love with my best friend but he doesn't know what he wants

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Question - (30 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 January 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I think that I've fallen in love with my best friend, and I just won't admit it. I told him that I liked him and he likes me back but he also likes some other girl who is slutty. He doesn't know what he wants, he doesn't know if he wants a relationship, but he really likes spending time with me and both of us enjoy when we mess around together. We connect amazingly, mentally and physically, that's the part that made me so nervous about telling him. He's one of my best friends, and the feeling is mutual. But I've never felt this away about anyone before. We're like one mind in two bodies. I love his eyes and the faces he makes when he's being all crazy and I love him through everything. I'd do anything for him.

I just don't understand why guys will always go for the easy slutty trash instead of working it out with someone that actually loves them and that is actually worth it.

I just don't know if I should wait for him to be ready. I just want the best of both worlds, I want to be best friends and I want a relationship. I need help.

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A male reader, Neboraic United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2008):

Theres nothing you can do, it's down to him to decide.

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