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In love with a same-sex teacher

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Question - (7 May 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2010)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im in love my teacher she doesn't teach me but i saw her in the hall at school assembly and i thought 'woah she is beautiful' and she looked at me and smiled i started to love her, a few weeks later she spoke to me and asked if i was ok and everything i said i was fine thank you, she constantly did this untill i got the courage to speak back to her, when i did she looked embarresed so i sighed i didnt think she could hear me but i think she did because she said i'm great thanks and gave me a funny look. i saw her a lot and she smiled at me alot and i loved her even more day by day, i have had many relationships, but ended them because i didnt love them as much as i loved her and i wanted her so much,i'ts differant that any feeling i have ever had for a girl, i usally want to snog and have sex with a girl but with miss, i don't care about any of that, i want to marry her and have children with her and go on picnics with her and look at the stars and grow old together... i have moved schools now i never told her how i felt, but eveyday i wake up wanting to tell her, should i? i know she doesn't feel the same way because i think she is straight and im bi-sexual, but i need to get it off my chest.

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A female reader, 024 United States +, writes (8 June 2010):

Yes I suggest you wait. I know how it feels to be rejeced, I loved my teacher for over a year and I finally text her how I feel and she rejected me.it is the worst feeling ever. My heart is broken and I won't get over this for a long time. It hurts

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010):

if you've moved schools, tell her once you're legal! maybe she feels the same way...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2010):

I also have this problem except that I think that I am straight. I am not sure if it is a crush or just admiration.

Every time I see my teacher I get sweaty palms.

I can't wait for her lessons.

I stare at her for the whole lesson.

I dream about her A LOT.

She winked at me the other day and I was happy for the whole day, even though she winks at everyone.

But don't tell her. It could go so wrong. She might reject you or worse you could get her in a lot of trouble and ruin her career.

Just enjoy the crush and wait for it to pass. That's what I intend to do. And yes I know it's hard but I don't see how we have any other choice.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (8 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntJust enjoy those dreams and fantasies and keep it that way. Some day if you are meant to be together, your paths will crossed again.

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (8 May 2010):

raiders agony auntNo don't say anything leave as it is a nice big crush. Don't make her feel uncomfortable with your advances, your a student and she is a teacher totally unacceptable. Go to school get your education and when you are older and if you feel the same way than look for her and tell her how feel. Plus you don't know if she like the ladies or likes the gentlemen, so leave it at that as a crush.

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